Apr
05
2010

Roger Butner
Moving right along… 4. Relinquishing our attachments to God and His will is tremendously freeing! I hope I will never forget the moment in my truck as I neared the Hammond exit several weeks ago. I had spent about 3o minutes of my weekly Thursday commute in conscience contact with God, praying for His will [...]
Tags: discipline, facebook, freedom, spiritual formation
Apr
05
2010

Roger Butner
Jesus instructs us in Matthew 6:16-18, “When you fast, do not look somber as the hypocrites do, for they disfigure their faces to show men they are fasting. I tell you the truth, they have received their reward in full. But when you fast, put oil on your head and wash your face, so that [...]
Tags: character, discipline, facebook, freedom, social networking
Mar
26
2010

Roger Butner
Spring is in the air, at least here at my home of Baton Rouge. (Along with the abominable yellow dust of misery, but that’s for another post on another day!) The weather, the greenery, and the birds all serve to remind us that life continues to emerge and change. Closets are cleaned out. Cars are [...]
Tags: discipline, personal responsibility, spiritual formation, the journey
Mar
20
2010

Roger Butner
If you have not yet heard about the success of Urban Prep Academy in Chicago, check this out! Hats off to these young men and the educators who have believed in them and called them out and up.
Tags: adolescence, character, discipline, HOPE, manhood, personal responsibility, respect, teaching, teens
Mar
16
2010

Roger Butner
I suppose you could call it ironic. Or maybe just sad. A great portion of my professional work every day is being a good listener. If I am going to have any reasonable hope of helping my clients, I have to listen carefully. Listen to their words. Listen to the emotion behind the words. Listen [...]
Tags: discipline, spiritual formation
Mar
02
2010

Roger Butner
I find my self at Ground Zero. Last night, I got my guitar out of the case where it has rested since Hurricane Gustav. Wow – that’s been a while! The short story is God has finally managed to break through the hardened crust around my heart to convict me to relinquish Facebook from my [...]
Tags: discipline, facebook, guitar, the journey
Feb
26
2010

Roger Butner
Step One: We admitted we were powerless… Okay, God – you tell me what to do with Facebook. Roger
Tags: discipline, facebook, freedom, HOPE, social networking, spiritual formation, the journey
Feb
10
2010

Roger Butner
The world class athletes stand on wobbly legs, sweating profusely and wondering when this nightmare drill will end. Some are doubled over at the goal line, retching, coughing, sputtering, and moaning. Others have their bodies steeled and upright, but their minds are reeling. Never in their lives have they experienced this kind of suffering. Their [...]
Tags: adolescence, character, discipline, leadership, parenting, respect, teaching, teens
Jan
18
2010

Roger Butner
Some of you may consider me a big loser for posing with my friend Pooh Bear, here. That’s cool. Others may consider me a big loser for plenty of other reasons. The reason I am posting this today is because I am very excited about participating in the Biggest Loser 2010: C-K Office Park edition. [...]
Tags: compasses, discipline, fitness, personal responsibility, respect, the journey
Oct
13
2009

Roger Butner
I haven’t been posting with the same regularity and rhythm of late. The primary reason is that my energy, beyond my ongoing counseling practice with my clients, has been largely devoted to my new role as an adjunct faculty member of the Counseling Department at Liberty University Online. This week is mid-term week in my [...]
Tags: blogging, discipline, HOPE, personal responsibility, teaching, the journey