Jan
23
2012

Roger Butner
Ever get into a funky place where you seem restless, irritable, and discontent? Well, I do. Sometimes for long stretches, I am sad to say. And I have found that when I get into one of these grouchy seasons, there is one question that lurks at the heart of the murkiness. It is a terrible [...]
Tags: addiction, character, compasses, discipline, freedom, HOPE, leadership, marriage / relationships, spiritual formation, the journey
Sep
09
2011

Roger Butner
Thanks to my buddy, Hans, for the title of this post. Men of the Baton Rouge area (and beyond), it’s here. The kickoff of a new season! Men are suiting up and showing up for battle to show what they are made of, and to take their game to a higher level this year. That’s [...]
Tags: coming soon..., compasses, friends, leadership, manhood, spiritual formation
Sep
27
2010

Roger Butner
Hoping you can somehow forever avoid talking to your kids about sex? You aren’t alone. But you also need to face your fears, say a prayer, dig deep, and dive in with your kids. You may want to start with this post about having the Tough Talks with kids. As promised in my Parenting 101 [...]
Tags: compasses, media, parenting, personal responsibility, sex, teaching
Sep
08
2010

Roger Butner
I just discovered these great resources today from Ron Deal and Successful Stepfamilies. While I have not read them yet, I have read Ron’s first book, The Smart Stepfamily, and it is fantastic. I have also had the pleasure of hearing him present a message live at a conference, as well as sharing a conversation [...]
Tags: books, compasses, family, HOPE, marriage / relationships, parenting
Jan
18
2010

Roger Butner
Some of you may consider me a big loser for posing with my friend Pooh Bear, here. That’s cool. Others may consider me a big loser for plenty of other reasons. The reason I am posting this today is because I am very excited about participating in the Biggest Loser 2010: C-K Office Park edition. [...]
Tags: compasses, discipline, fitness, personal responsibility, respect, the journey
Jan
08
2010

Roger Butner
Colt McCoy – hats off to you, brother! Folks, you’ve got to see this minute and a half interview! For those who aren’t aware, Colt McCoy was a Heisman runner-up for the last two years, and one of the most outstanding quarterbacks ever to play college football. His Texas Longhorns played an impressive undefeated season [...]
Tags: compasses, HOPE, leadership, manhood, respect, the journey
Dec
18
2009

Roger Butner
It is very good to have a plan. Just don’t hold it too tightly. Six days and seven nights at Disney World. Four parks, plus a special shopping district, and multiple resorts with additional minor attractions. Special lunches and breakfasts and dinners that include up close and personal visits with the real Disney characters. Special [...]
Tags: compasses, the journey
Nov
27
2009

Roger Butner
I know. For those of you who have been following me on Twitter and/or Facebook, you realize this statement comes near apostasy for me. But what you may not realize is that I grew up in Little Rock, AR, home of Jennings Osborne and family. Click here to get a visual tour of the world [...]
Tags: community, compasses, culture, facebook, HOPE, the journey, twitter
Nov
04
2009

Roger Butner
Just checking in to share how wonderful it was this morning when I was driving my son to school, and he asked to listen to some music. He wanted to listen to “The Law and the Prophets,” which is what he calls the song on his Steve Green cd of Scripture songs for kids that [...]
Tags: character, compasses, family, HOPE, leadership, parenting, the journey
Sep
09
2009

Roger Butner
I am increasingly realizing that I have been terribly duped for much of my life. My flesh has conspired with the American culture of hedonism to raise me on a steady diet of the consideration, “What do I feel like doing?” Some regular variations include, “What would make me more comfortable?” “What would make me [...]
Tags: character, compasses, discipline, family, freedom, manhood, parenting, personal responsibility, the journey